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Umethuli we-Podcast uPenuel Mlotshwa uthi ilobolo kumele likhokhwe kuphela ezintombini ezifuna ukuba ngamakhosikazi ahlala ekhaya.
UPenuel uthi abesifazane abangezona izintombi kumele bagxile emisebenzini yabo, hhayi emshadweni.
Usola i-Feminism moms inkolelo eqhakambisa ubufazane namasiko esimanje ngokubhidliza amasiko amnyama nesithunzi sawo.
Kuvidiyo yakhe yakamuva ku-YouTube, uPenuel uthe abesifazane asebenze ucansi ngaphambi komshado akufanele balindele ilobolo, kodwa kumele bagxile ekwakheni ikusasa labo.
“Ucansi ngaphambi komshado lwalungamukelekile emasikweni ase-Afrika nakwezenkolo zobuKristu. Uma ulala nomuntu ungakashadi wenza isono futhi kufanele uphenduke,” esho.
UPenuel uphinde waveza ukuthi inani lowesifazane lihlobene nenani labesilisa asebeye ocansini naye, nokuthi amadoda ambuka kanjani emphakathini.
“Nakuba ilobolo nenhlawulo kungabonakala kuyizinto ezincane, zibalulekile ngokuthi zisho ukuthini emphakathini,” kusho yena.
“Kimina, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi kungani imiphakathi yabantu abamnyama ibhidlikile. Lokho kungitshela cishe konke engidinga ukukwazi ngesimo sempilo emphakathini wethu.”
UPenuel uphinde wagxeka indlela yesimanjemanje yokukhokha ilobolo, lapho amadoda ethatha izikweletu ukuze akhokhe inani, ekubiza ngento engalungile emhlabeni lapho abesimame bafuna into elinganayo.
Uphinde wagxeka nomkhuba wokukhokha inhlawulo uma kwenzeke ukukhulelwa kungahlelwanga, ethi abazali kufanele bakhulise izingane zabo zabesifazane ngendlela ezogcina ubuqotho bazo kuze kuba zifika emshadweni.
“Ingane yentombazane kumele ikhuliswe nguyise, ikakhulukazi ngumama oyifundisa ngobumsulwa,” esho.
“Namuhla, amantombazane atshela omama bawo ukuthi aya ocansini, enza izinkulumo zokuhushula izisu nokuphuphuma kwazo.
Bese le nsizwa iyaxhashazwa ukuze ikhokhe inhlawulo kanti intombazane iyazenzisa sengathi isaphelele.”
Uthi abazali abafuna inhlawulo basuke bengenalo iqiniso uma sebazi ukuthi amadodakazi abo akusazona izintombi.
Esithombeni esingenhla: UPenuel Mlotshwa.
Umthombo wesithombe: YouTube.