Farida Joyce
Umsakazi wezindaba ophinde abe umqeqeshi womuntu siqu uSbahle Mpisane ubelokhu ekhuluma ngendlela azama ngayo ukuzibulala ngesikhathi esesibhedlela elulama ngemuva kokuba kokulimala engozini yemoto.
UMpisane washayisa imoto yakhe yohlobo lwe-BMW esihlahleni ngesikhathi ebuya ebumnandini ngo-2018, kanti walimala kabi kuleyo ngozi.
Waquleka amasonto wahlala izinyanga esibhedlela, kanti isikhathi esiningi wasichitha egumbini labagula kakhulu.
Othanda ukuzovocavoca udalule ukuthi wazama ukuzibulala kabili phakathi kuka-2018 no-2019. Lezi zindaba zifakwe ochungechungeni lwezitatimende esiqeshaneni esine-hashtag ethi #MyInjury esikhishwe ekhasini lakhe laku-Instagram.
Udokotela wengqondo wasiza uMpisane ngesikhathi enemicabango yokuzibulala ngo-2021, engeza.
“Ngesikhathi ngisesibhedlela ngo-2018 ngazama ukuzikhunga, kodwa umhlengikazi wami wangena ngesikhathi ngizama ukwenza lokho,” ebhala.
“Ngo-2019 ngakuhlela kahle ukuzibulala kodwa ngavuka ngemuva kwezinsuku ezine. Ngaxolisa futhi ngathembisa uNkulunkulu ukuthi ngeke ngiphinde ngimvivinye njengoba esindise impilo yami amahlandla amathathu.”
Kulo mbhalo uveza nokuthi lo nyaka ubumcindezela kangakanani.
“Lo nyaka ubugcwele intukuthelo, ingcindezi, ukukhathazeka kanye nezinyembezi ezengeziwe kodwa bengizikhulula ngokukhuluma nabangani ngezinto ezingikhathazayo. Ngithola ukuphumula okwengeziwe ngokubona umndeni wami futhi ukuvuselelwa kwesikhumba kube yinto engivuselela kakhulu.”
Uphinde waveza ukuthi nakuba engasenayo imicabango yokuzibulala, akakawuqondi kahle umcabango wokungabi nekusasa eliqhakazile.
UMpisane ubhale ukuthi, “Umcabango wokungabi nethambo leqakala noma ikusasa eliqhakazile awukaze ungiphathe kahle futhi namanje kunjalo.
“Angihleli ukuzibulala; umelaphi wami ube usizo futhi udokotela wami wengqondo unginike imithi. Ngiyazi ukuthi kuningi okufanele ngikubonge kodwa uma imizwa ifika, sonke siba buthaka. Ngisebuthaka namanje.
“Angikuqondi ukuthi kungani ngasinda kodwa mhlawumbe kunenhloso ngakho konke lokhu.”